She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Great lovers aren’t born—they learn to listen, understand, and prioritize.

She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner is a candid, respectful, and empowering guide that flips the script on traditional ideas about sex and satisfaction. Backed by science and delivered with humor and heart, this must-read book focuses on the importance of female pleasure—especially through oral sex—and helps partners build deeper, more satisfying intimate connections.

Kerner, a sex therapist, offers practical techniques, communication tips, and anatomical insights, all while encouraging confidence, curiosity, and mutual respect in the bedroom. His message is simple but powerful: when you put your partner’s pleasure first, everyone wins.

Perfect for men looking to become more attentive, informed, and confident lovers, She Comes First is the best book for deepening intimacy, boosting sexual satisfaction, and fostering a truly connected relationship