The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read: (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—but this book is the next best thing.

The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) by Philippa Perry is a warm, practical, and often eye-opening guide to building strong, healthy relationships with your children—at any age. Rather than focusing on quick fixes or strict rules, Perry explores how our own upbringing shapes our parenting and shows how small shifts in understanding can lead to big changes in connection, trust, and emotional wellbeing.

Through real-life examples and thoughtful advice, this must-read parenting book covers everything from managing emotions to setting boundaries and repairing mistakes. It’s not about being a perfect parent—it’s about being present, self-aware, and willing to grow alongside your child.

This is the best book for new parents, seasoned caregivers, or anyone wanting to break unhelpful cycles and raise emotionally resilient kids. With compassion and humor, Philippa Perry offers tools to help you nurture not just your child—but your relationship with them.